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If you're in a bar, flirting with a woman you're interested in doing sex stuff with, there are a million ways to screw up that encounter. You could be creepy. You could forget to buy her friends a drink. You could accidentally attribute a poem about love to Rilke when it was clearly John Donne! To find out how not to totally blow it when talking to members of the fairer sex, we consulted a group of women who've collectively been romantically flailed at by thousands of hopeless men.
Here's their advice, in their own words.
Little glances and quick smiles work much better. Blatant staring is just creepy and uncomfortable. Ask the bartender what the girl is drinking and send that. When in doubt, a glass of something sparkling never hurt anyone. If they are right next to me, you offer them a drink too.
It's so tacky when you don't. Time at a jukebox can be very telling and definitely a turn-on. Guys nowadays think that buying the drink gives you permission to talk to and even harass that person. You should always think of buying the drink as a selfless gesture. It deserves no more than a 'thank you' if accepted. Plus, a guy steps into unknown territory, while the bartender has already been talking to this person.
They're not trying to impress the girl, but their friends. It instantly makes me uncomfortable. I don't believe anything they say and try to get away immediately. It's amazing how far being normal can take you.
That person you're going to approach is just another human. And if they don't want to talk to you, it's okay, you will find someone who does. They're not a bad person or a bitch or an asshole just because they're not interested in having a conversation with you. Editor's Note: "Neg" is a pick-up artist slang term for an insult in the clothing of a compliment, as made popular by that book The Game by Neil Strauss, which no one admits they've read. Including this editor.
Girls love a complim-insult! Just kidding. The more pressure, the more I get turned off. It's the basic common sense rule of knowing your audience. If she's not that kind of woman, then approach her as if she was a friend, find some common ground, hopefully get in a laugh, and make a real connection beyond the obvious 'how fast can I get her in bed? Or ask her to be your pool partner. Erotic Photo Match may not be the best, but who knows. I'm partial to distracting activities around strangers though [so it doesn't get awkward or whatever].
Patience and kindness is seductive. Sadly there's no blanket for what does land, but still-confident-and-a-little-self-deprecating is usually a solid approach that can be really charming when used well. He'd like to thank all the women who contributed to this. May their lives be filled with free beverages of their choosing and tasteful jukebox selections.
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